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Posted by: David Freeman 1/4/2008 4:44 PM

I turn 60 this month. It doesn't feel like I thought 60 would feel. My mind is still young and full of ideas for the future. My body has a hard time keeping up, but that's because I've abused it more than because of age. Getting back into shape is sure a lot harder than staying it shape. I should have paid more attention years ago.

One of my favorite authors, Donald Miller, wrote something about aging. He said if your life was a book, when you get to a point where you realize there are more pages in your left hand than in your right, you start paying more attention to the pages that are left. And you become very conscious of not wanting the story to end. In some ways I'm like that. I can look back and of course I have a few regrets, but all in all, it has been a pretty good ride. I look ahead and there is still so much I want to do, I don't even think about if I have enough years left or not. I just plan to keep on doing as long as my mind and body will let me.

Regrets?  There are some words and actions I'd like to undo. On the other hand I have many friends from my youth. Professionally, I regret having gotten out of the National Guard when I moved to Texas in 1977. I took some bad advice from someone not qualified to give advice in that area. My job career has been interesting. The only real false start I've had is in training show horses and if I'm honest about it, that was someone else's vision, not mine. I've always wanted to fly and I've done quite a bit of it. I'm not flying regularly these days, but I still have a license and I still have a medical, so I'm legal to fly.

The other passion is writing and publishing. I've done some of that and am moving full speed ahead with other projects. Sure, I'd love to get national recognition and someday sell enough of something to make a living at it, but even if that doesn't happen, I'm having fun and leaving my mark where I can.

The one thing I'm most thankful for at this point in my life is my family. I have a faithful, loving and forgiving wife. My three sons are like my three best friends. The two daughters-in-law seem like my own flesh and blood. And those grandchildren? Don't even get me started talking about them. Seven unique and delightful individuals, each with his or her own personality. Watching them grown and learn is something I'm really looking forward to. I have a lot of grandaddy memories. Hopefully, we can make some for them.

I'm thankful that God made Himself real to me and has remained faithful and loving. And I'm thankful for true friends, past and present, who love, support and encourage me. Sixty ain't bad. And, there were no black balloons at my desk today. Just three colorful ones with lots of smiles.

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Re: Another Decade? Really!    By Carlos Teichert on 1/5/2008 2:16 PM
David it has really been fun seeing your posts! I really enjoyed out time we had in Dallas. It was quite a surprise when we connected there. As with many othersfrom our class, I have some regrets but would change very little in my life if I had to do it all over again. As with you I rgret having left the National guard/ Reserves when i did. After 9/11 I contacted the Texas guard at the ripe age of 50 something and was told I was too old. I feel I could have served in a traing capacity, sitting behind a desk freeing up some poor younger soul to get out from behind a desk and "pound ground." maybe whomever it was I would have ""freed" up to get out from sittingat desk is better off, than having to deploy

Re: Another Decade? Really!    By (Billye) Jo on 1/5/2008 10:36 PM
Happy Birthday! I thought we were going to be old at 60 - what a mistake! My birthday is in March, so I'm not far behind. I'm grateful for the health that I've had - it is truly a gift.


Re: Another Decade? Really!    By Carlos Teichert on 1/6/2008 12:05 PM
I just read Billye Jo's post and realized that I am blessed with a comtinuig presence here on earth as we wjo have survived health chllanges all are. Should my health permanently fail me my legacy will be my children and their children. We were aqble to break the chain of non beleivers in my family and I can say with comfort and relief that my children have all accpeted our Lord as thier Savior. David thanks for you steadfastenss in that regard and to others in our class for keeping that torch of hope lit for others to see the way.

Re: Another Decade? Really!    By Steve Owens on 1/7/2008 12:36 PM
Time has a way of sneaking up on all of us. Your book about growing up in Oxford has given me the desire to reconnect with you, Carlos and others with whom I grew up. Aging is part of living and you have, apparently, done well. Best wishes for the next decade.


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